How To Share Responsibly On Social Media

Sharing on social media is par for the course as a blogger. Learning how to share responsibly on social media is a necessary skill to master and one that can make or break you with your audience.

Some years ago, memes like these were all over social media. Usually, they were something to give followers a chuckle and garner a like.

funny graphic

And then there is this campy quote:

raindrop quote

Really? Is that true?

If you are wondering, no, it’s not true. Even if you want it to be. It’s nonsense but it makes some people feel good. 

As bloggers, and I would argue especially as Christian bloggers who desire to share truth with our audience, we have a responsibility to our readers to think about how we communicate. It is imperative that we share responsibly on social media.

In the age of Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, and Pinterest, it’s more than just our blogs that “say” something about us. It’s our tweets, our posts, and our photos as well. All these things are a reflection of us as writers, as women, and as followers of Christ.  What we say and how we say it, matters.

Sharing quotes is a fantastic way to spark conversation and encourage our readers. But, it’s important to know who we are quoting. Just because something sounds good, doesn’t mean it has value. As writers, we know our words carry weight. That’s what we want. Often, that is why we write. But, what we associate ourselves with also carries weight and has an impact on our audience. Our readers “follow” us because they like our writing style and because they believe our content means something. They are looking to us for content and quality.

In the same way, when we post graphics with funny sayings, these are a reflection of our personal humor.  When we post graphics with serious sayings or quote famous people, these are also a reflection of us, of our personal beliefs and values.

If I were to post this:

DC junk

What would you think?

What about if I posted this graphic and then in my next post told you about my church or exhorted you to read your Word more. Would that change what you think?

It changes your opinion of me doesn’t it? It should make you question my beliefs and my values and my reliability to share God’s Word with you.

Today, with Wikipedia, Google, and websites dedicated to authors and celebrities, there is no excuse for you to not know who the person is you are quoting. None. It’s too easy to find out someones history, their preferences, beliefs, habits, and proclivities. It’s all out there for the world to know. This is the digital age and what you post reflects back on you. Again, it’s important to share responsibly on social media.

If you think I am sounding harsh, that’s okay. I want you to be the best writer you can be and I want you to have meaningful influence on your readers. I also want you to to first and foremost direct your readers to the source of your passion and the reason for your writing, especially if that’s the Creator of the Universe and His son, Jesus Christ.

Here’s the deal, so that you and I both know where we stand:

Proverbs 27:17 is true – As iron sharpens iron, so a person sharpens his friend. I expect that of you and I hope you expect the same from me, your sister-in-Christ.

There are over 31 thousand verses in the bible. That’s 31,000 for you visual folks. I’m fairly confident that you can find something in there with which to encourage your readers. There are a lot of really good authors, speakers, pastors and theologians who have said some really wonderful and uplifting things. Biblically sound things.  Dig in and find them. Go crazy!  There are amazing people who have spoken throughout history and said great things. Do a little research and find something good from someone good.

Let me be very clear here: I am in no way saying that you shouldn’t post funny sayings or humorous pictures. Everybody needs a laugh once in a while. What I AM saying is – remember how your post, tweet, or picture will reflect back on you and your calling to reach other women.

If you are unsure, ask. As sisters in the faith we should have no problem coming to one another and asking –

“Is this good?”

“Does this line up with the Word?”

“Should I post this?”

If you are in a mastermind group, that is what they are for.  If you aren’t, find one, start one or at the very least, get with some of your peers to keep each other sharp.

As writers, we can’t afford to turn people off to the faith. The world is crazy and there are real, hurting and lost people out there. Don’t muddy the living waters with junk.

You have too much to say to do anything different and God wants to use your writing for His glory. Doesn’t that make you excited?

Blog on sisters. Share responsibly on social media. Connect  in real and meaningful ways with your readers. Do it with integrity and a little smarts and you’ll never go wrong.

What are your thoughts on sharing on social media responsibly?

 

 

 

 

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Comments

23 responses to “How To Share Responsibly On Social Media”

  1. Well said, and a very good reminder.

    1. Thank you Katharine. It’s a good reminder for me too. I get a little emotional and worked up sometimes. I need to think before I click.

  2. Love this posts Debi SO much! Thank you.

    1. Thanks Z. I’m so glad you stopped by today.

  3. Amen, sister. I see a lot of pop psychology on friends’ walls that just don’t line up with truth at all. Now I’m wondering if I need to go delete anything. 🙂 Keep on sharpening!

    1. I doubt you need to delete anything. You are pretty straight arrow in my book, but it does make you think about it doesn’t it? So glad you stopped by today. Are we going to be able to connect this week on Google?

      1. Hmm… wanna make a date? I’m definitely free Thursday 12-4 Eastern.

        1. Yeah, that’s my day I am definitely not available. Let’s shoot for next week shall we?

  4. A timely exhortation! (How’s that for a churchy word?) It is always good to think before acting.

    1. I know I know. That’s part of my problem – I have to work at remembering to think first. Thanks for stopping by today Elizabeth. I hope you are doing well.

  5. Wise words, Debi! I hesitate to share quotes on Facebook and Twitter for this reason. For now I stick to posting a verse that speaks to me every morning. When I have a little extra time on my hands (hah!) I make images to go with those verses.

    1. Thank you so much for stopping by Sheena. I agree with you – verses are a really good way to go. We know the source for sure, right? Do you have any free time to share with me? (hee hee!)

  6. Sara VanderBent Avatar
    Sara VanderBent

    Well said Debi! There have been several times where the meme is funny but if you aren’t checking the page you are sharing from, Ouch! Thanks for all you do!

    1. I know how that goes Sara. You click on where it came from and it makes your toes curl. Yikes. The source is important for sure. Thank you for stopping by today.

  7. VERY well said and bring it on! I have seen several quotes from the Dalai Lama (did I spell that right) that I would have loved to share because they were great quotes but knowing that he does not recognize my God as the one true God restrained me. I don’t want people to assume that I am a follower of the Dalai Lama just because I like some of his words!

    1. I so agree with you Beth. I was just telling someone yesterday that I definitely associate a quote with the person who posted it. It tells me what type of person they are. Are they a Christ follower or not, do they read and study and find things out for themselves? Or do they just follow the crowd?

      If someone posts something by someone I do not agree with, even if the quote is good, that tells a lot about that person. In blogging we only have a few hundred words to “meet” each other, quotes and graphics speak volumes. Thanks for stopping by today. I’m so glad to see you over here. Thanks for the comment love.

  8. FourForFrance Williamson Avatar
    FourForFrance Williamson

    Thanks, Debi! That was SO well said, and I couldn’t agree more. I wrote this posting along those same lines: http://fourforfrance.blogspot.fr/2012/06/what-i-dont-pray.html

    1. Loved your post. What a bunch of drivel and pablum we “LIKE”. We need to be sharp as we face a world that is corrupt and sinful. We need to suit up in our armor and these kinds of graphics and quotes are not helpful. Thanks for stopping by. I appreciate your comments.

  9. I would have gotten this on the weekend through my email sub. I might need to alter my settings if I can. I hate that I missed this but so gald we talked about it so that I had these thoughts in my mind. They have really made me start thinking differently, and I feel I need to put up a disclaimer post apologizing for any old quotes I have used which were inappropriate! Ugh. But, I can move forward, and i shall, so thanks again!

    1. Yeah, this one would come to you on this coming Saturday. I only send out updates once a week. I’m so glad we talked too. That was fun. I think you are doing great, so disclaimer or no, keep up the good work.

  10. Thank you, Ma’am!! I’ve said and thought the same things of others. Thinking of WHO I represent outweighs the funny or cute little graphic or whatnot most times.

    Thanks for being brave enough to stand firm for what you believe and to speak out. You’re a blessed lady 🙂

    XOXO

    1. You are right on the money my friend – it’s all about the WHO. You are so wonderful for reading all these posts. Thank you. xoxoxo right back atcha!!!

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